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"Although golf was originally restricted to wealthy, overweight Protestants, today it's open to anybody who owns hideous clothing" |
-Dave Barry |
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Life can't get much better for Tracy Roberts these days. The PGA professional from Mission Viejo has written a book due out this month - "Play REAL Golf" - where he offers advice regarding golfers' "emotional mechanics" and unveils a system to help players of all levels improve their mental approach to the sport. It's also clear that Roberts is a man lucky enough to love his work. His days start early in the morning and are filled with coaching and teaching. Coach of the boys and girls golf teams at Woodbridge High School in Irvine, Roberts is also a certified PGA teaching professional who gives lessons to individuals of all ages and playing abilities at the Rancho San Joaquin Golf Practice Center in Irvine. "How can you not love a job where you're sharing golf with people all day?" Roberts asks with a smile. "I'm so lucky to be sharing this amazing game that is so important to me." And about that coaching gig: Roberts' daughter Samantha, a junior at Wood-bridge, is the No. 1 player on the girls squad. "How many dads have the opportunity to spend three hours with their teenage daughters every afternoon?" he notes. So, yes, Roberts is on a roll. But perhaps one reason why life is looking so good is that he's one of those guys who always sees the glass as half full. A cheerful and enthusiastic teacher, he believes it's crucial to have a positive approach to life's various adventures - and that attitude has infused his coaching. Besides leading the Woodbridge girls golf squad since the program started eight years ago, Roberts has also shepherded the boys team for 19 years, and he was the associate head coach of Woodbridge's boys and girls basketball teams for 10 years. His many years of working with young athletes - and their fragile psyches - helped Roberts develop the system he calls "Play REAL Golf." (The book, which he co-wrote with PGA professional Stephen Plummer, is being put out by Dog Ear Publishing. Visit www.playrealgolf.com.) But its principles apply to individuals of all ages, he stresses. The acronym "REAL" stands for Relax, Evaluate, Activate and Let it go. Roberts elaborates on each theme, presenting a methodology to give people various and specific steps they can rely on when they feel themselves crumbling on the course. When people compete, he explains, they often tighten up, miss shots, anguish over those missed shots, stress out, and then beat themselves up mentally. Roberts, who has a master's degree in education with an em-phasis on sports psychology, says you need to relax, step back and have some perspective. Be realistic with your expectations and, instead of hammering yourself for your failures, focus on the positive things you've done that day. "The more you frame these things in a positive manner to yourself," Roberts says, "the more you can build up a positive momentum." Roberts, who qualified for the PGA Tour in 2000 at 39, has been working toward his goal of publishing a book for a long time. "This has really been exciting," he said. "Every golfer - no matter who it is - wants to be better. And they want to be better within their own set of goals." Co-author Plummer, an Aliso Viejo resident, is a big believer in the "Play REAL Golf" guidelines. "I had my best year on the tour last year, when I was working with this process," he said. "It's made me mentally tougher." Plummer says he was one of those golfers who would stew in his anger after he hit bad shots. "That's what helped me most with this," he says. "I used to put myself down, and I don't do that as much now." Roberts says following these kinds of psychologically rooted steps helps with other things besides golf. He's seen that with some of his students. "The more they grew through this process with golf, the more they grew as people," he says. n |
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